Stop Start in Love
The School of Life
Apr 15, 2026 13:00
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“We can try to understand one of the oddest, most painful, most widespread phenomena in love. It is going on right this moment between a couple, he a dentist, she a nutritionist, in Rio de Janeiro; two teenagers are at it in Canberra, there’s a pair involved in the rigmarole in downtown Dakar, another in Svalbard, another still in Winnipeg. If every time it happened, a light went on, most of the earth would glow from space…”
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Written and Narration:
Alain De Botton
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