Why We Go Cold On Our Partners #theschooloflife #animation #fearofintimacy
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Sep 30, 2026 13:00
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Going cold on our partners is often a sign not that we have stopped caring, but that we are - somewhere deep down - furious or hurt.
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“The story of the path to coldness in love is well known. We start off full of affection for one another and then – with time – feelings fade. We start prioritising work; we check our phones while they’re speaking; we don’t especially want to hear how their day went…”
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