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How to Write ENEMIES-TO-LOVERS Romance - Structure, Tips, and Things to Avoid ⚔️❤️‍🔥

Write with Claire Fraise Feb 9, 2026 15:30
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Learn how to write an enemies-to-lovers romance that is earned, and that readers will eat up. There's a lot of thought that goes into the way good romances are structured. In this video, I'm going to break down the general structure of an enemies-to-lovers romance, what I found most helpful when learning how to write them, and how I like to approach building and releasing the tension between the two enemies as they fall in love. NOTE: I apologize for how many times I say "enemies-to-lovers romance" at the beginning of this video. 😂 -- Subscribe to my channel for weekly videos sharing actionable writing tips that helped me improve as a writer. 🎬 VIDEOS YOU WILL LIKE: How to Write YEARNING In Romance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZX0F5Cq7QO0 How to Write Good Spicy Scenes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WvyTOIep7k SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/c/WritewithClaireFraise 👻 READ THEY STAY (book 1 in my paranormal thriller series and won the Grand Prize at the 2023 Writer’s Digest Self Published Book Awards): Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/They-Stay-Suspenseful-Young-Mystery/dp/1737225301/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=claire+fraise%27&qid=1628649544&sr=8-1 Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/they-stay-claire-fraise/1139953490?ean=9781737225300 Add on GOODREADS: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57821402-they-stay JOIN MY MAILING LIST: https://bit.ly/3zFpz0l 😀 CONNECT WITH ME: MAILING LIST: https://bit.ly/3zFpz0l EMAIL ME: [email protected] WEBSITE: https://www.clairefraise.com/​​​​​​ TIKTOK (where I’m most active other than YouTube): https://www.tiktok.com/@clairefraiseauthor?_t=ZP-90cwafzkR5z&_r=1 INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/clairefraiseauthor/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/clairefraiseauthor PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/clairefraisebooks/ GOODREADS: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/14193771.Claire_Fraise ABOUT: Hi, I'm Claire! I’m an award-winning self-published author of paranormal thriller books (my book "They Stay" won the Grand Prize at the 2023 Writer's Digest Self-Published Book Awards and is the first in a five-book series). There is no one way to write a book. I’m a strong believer that the only way to develop your own writing process is by trying a bunch of different methods to find out what is the most helpful to you. In my videos, I share how I approach every stage in my writing process, from brainstorming to editing, in the hope that it could give you something to try that could help you level up as a writer. I share techniques that have improved my own writing so you can see if the same strategies help you.
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